Do you live to reach success in others’ minds or your own?
Do you live up to the HAPPYNESS you feel or what others think should be/feel/look like?
Do you want to be seen as successful or do you want to see yourself successful?
So WHAT is success or happiness for you?

A personal truth that might resonate with you to is
WHY and HOW you live YOUR life on your terms = success and happiness.
No one has to see hear or feel it. Just you. It’s such an intimate thing that it cannot be shared, repeated copied, or traded. It is not a generic thing. It’s individual. No magic formula.

A choice in every moment of your life.
What do I truly value, WHY do I love it or want it?
What do I do to get it, HOW do I get it or get there?

Mine started when I decided that becoming a mother is the best thing I could wish for. It gave me the power to survive, a reason, and permission to live at the same time. Or when I decided I can live without worrying about others’ emotions and start gardening my own. When I started questioning my values, or when I took my role as a parent seriously. Lead the way, be the light, be the shelter, be the example, be the stepping stone, the rock. Something took a turn inside me.
Slowly, ever so slowly.
I am still learning. I am still improving. I still have a long way to go. But this is my journey. These are my struggles, successes, and happiness.

Find your own.

Find your truth, be yourself.
Rediscover life.
You NOW have the power. Use it, Wear it Own it!

Don’t try to monkey yourself into the values or dreams of others.